Men’s Discipleship Groups Made Simple: Learn How to Disciple Men
A simple men's discipleship process you can lead in a small group — and a brotherhood of ordinary men doing it together across the nation.
You love Jesus. You're connected to a church. You know you're supposed to make disciples.
But nobody ever showed you how to disciple other men.
You've tried men's Bible studies. You've attended men's groups. But something's missing — there's no clear path from "church attender" to "disciple-maker."
You're not alone.
Most Christian men feel this gap. They want to do more than consume — they want to contribute. But without a clear process, the calling stays unfulfilled.
And here's the hard truth:
Another year will pass. The men around you who need to be discipled will keep waiting. And the nudge from the Holy Spirit will keep coming — unanswered.
It doesn't have to be that way.
"When they saw the courage of Peter and John and realized that they were unschooled, ordinary men, they were astonished and they took note that these men had been with Jesus." — Acts 4:13
Where "Ordinary Men" Comes From
The first disciple-makers weren't seminary graduates. They were fishermen, tax collectors, and tradesmen.
Ordinary men who had been with Jesus — and were willing to help others do the same.
That's who this is for.
Not pastors. Not professionals. Just ordinary guys who are willing to step up, gather a few men, and walk together toward Jesus.
If that's you, you're in the right place.
We know what it's like to want more than another Bible study — to feel the weight of Jesus' command to "make disciples" but have no idea where to start.
We've sat in men's groups that felt more like content consumption than life transformation. We've wondered if we were "qualified enough" to lead. We've asked, "Why isn't anyone showing us how to do this?"
That's exactly why Ordinary Men exists.
We Built a Men’s Discipleship Process We Wish We'd Had
We didn't just create a curriculum. We built a reproducible men's discipleship process that ordinary guys can actually lead — and pass on to others.
What makes it work:
A proven 27-session workbook built for men
High-grace, high-challenge culture that sharpens, not shames
Coaching, training, and a platform that supports you every step
A brotherhood of men across the nation doing this together
Real multiplication: groups producing 2nd, 3rd, and 4th generation disciple-makers
"For me, OM has given me a voice where before there was none, and slightly boosted confidence in sharing my faith with other men, not just those in my household. I found that being a part of a group, and being allowed the freedom to open up and be vulnerable, can add fuel to whatever fire is burning. The bond forged with both groups of men so far has been one that will last a long time. There is even a felt bond with many other men who I know are OM, but weren't in one of my groups- almost a built-in trust." -Chris
How Men's Discipleship Works
Starting a men's discipleship group doesn't have to be complicated.
Here's the path:
1. Sign Up — Create your free account and get instant access to our platform, men's workbook preview, and leader training.
2. Get Equipped — Follow our step-by-step process and connect with a coach. You'll know exactly what to do, what to say, and how to lead — before your first meeting.
3. Lead Your Group — Gather your men and start the journey together. Walk through 27 sessions of high-challenge, high-grace discipleship — and watch your group members become leaders who start their own groups.
You don't need to have it all figured out.
You just need to be willing to step up.
What Is a Men’s Discipleship Group?
A men’s discipleship group is more than a Bible study and more intentional than a typical men’s group. At its core, it’s about helping men follow Jesus in everyday life and equipping them to help others do the same. This kind of Christian men’s discipleship is not built around information alone — but around lived obedience and spiritual growth.
Many men’s groups focus on content consumption — reading Scripture, watching a video, or discussing a topic. While those practices can be helpful, they often stop short of transformation. A true men’s discipleship program provides a clear pathway that moves men from passive participation to active ownership of their faith.
Ordinary Men groups are built on a simple, reproducible process that ordinary guys can lead. Our focus isn’t on having all the answers, but on walking with Jesus alongside other men in honesty and obedience. Each group functions as a men’s accountability group, where consistency, openness, and challenge are part of the culture.
With us, men’s small group discipleship centers on three biblical priorities: intimacy with Jesus, intentional relationships, and multiplication. Over time, men grow in spiritual maturity and confidence, learning to take responsibility for their faith and influence others well.
You don’t need to be a pastor or have formal training to lead. With clear session guides and coaching support, we here at Ordinary Men make it simple to understand how to start a men’s discipleship group and multiply leaders within your church or community. This approach fits naturally within discipleship for churches, supporting what leaders are already building.
The Core Values Behind Our Men’s Discipleship Process
Every Ordinary Men group is built on three pillars:
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We prioritize our relationship with our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, knowing that our identity can only be found through intimacy with Him. Everything in our Christian walk flows from our time spent with the Lord. We long to grow in intimacy with Jesus, making our faith personal. Intimacy with Jesus births passion that fuels our faith.
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Instead of individualism and isolation, we commit to sacrificing our time and schedules to invest in others, building intentional relationships anchored in the Lord. We do what we say, we make time for others, and we maintain teachable hearts. We understand that our lives matter because other’s lives depend on us.
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We commit to being disciples who make disciples, focused on putting our faith into action. We act out of calling from a place of intimacy and passion produced in time spent with God. First, we sit and listen, then we go and do. While Ordinary Movement groups are designed to strengthen and empower the believer, we do not exist to create a “holy huddle.” On the contrary, Ordinary Movement believes that as each participant becomes fully alive in his individual walk with Christ, from this place of intimacy they will be empowered to reach others around them who are lost. So, while multiplication within Ordinary Movement groups will be specific to believers participating in intentional discipleship, the result will, and must be, a spreading of the Gospel among the communities in which we live and the people with whom we interact daily. The ultimate goal is that each person will bring new believers into the Ordinary Movement process and teach them to be disciples who make disciples.
Go from "I don't know how to disciple men" to confidently leading a group that sharpens men — and multiplies.
More Than a Program
— A Brotherhood
Ordinary Men isn't just a curriculum you download and run alone.
It's a grassroots movement of men across the nation who are done with consumer Christianity — and are stepping into ownership of the Great Commission.
Firefighters. Electricians. Business owners. Teachers. Mechanics. Retirees.
Men who aren't professional Christians. Men who don't have theology degrees. Men who simply said, "I'm willing to step up" — and discovered they could lead a group that changes lives.
When you start a group, you're not doing this alone.
You're joining a national men’s movement of disciple-makers who carry the same high-grace, high-challenge culture. You're connected to men who've been where you are. And you're part of a movement that's producing 2nd, 3rd, and 4th generation groups.
This is what it looks like when ordinary men take the Great Commission seriously.
What Men Are Saying
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“Growing up in the Christian faith, I always felt like I was missing some important truth about my faith. It seemed as if getting saved and being good were the objectives to strive for, but that never rang true. It wasn’t until I was able to embrace the vulnerability of being an ordinary man, unable to meet my own expectations, let alone God’s, that I found that I could start to experience God’s grace and grow in true intimacy with Jesus. God chose the ordinary men of this world so that He would be glorified. In the daily discipline of being His disciple, expressed through a spirit of hospitality, I am now able to say, "I am willing Lord, send me."
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“I feel like it opened the doors to being with other Christian men. It allows the freedom to speak your faith and engage in Christian conversations. Everyone I've met seems to be relaxed and willing to listen/talk about things most men are not willing to talk about.”
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“This last year probably saved my "life". I say that as a guy who has struggled with depression, and leading up the start of OM, I was near my lowest point. The prayer and connection with the fellas in OM, coupled with the power of the Spirit, turned my outlook around, gave me friends to rely on, and support to take on each day and succeed. I love it.
In addition, I connected with a couple guys, I'd call deep friends, at this point. Men who I didn't know before, who have joined with me, and I with them, to grow closer to Christ and each other.”
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“Through my one-year journey with OM, I was truly blessed by the relationships that grew with the dudes in my group. I was already friends with all of them and went to church with most of them, but through OM we grew closer and strengthened our relationships. I now have guys I can call and talk with, share with and pray with. I’m sure that was always there with our friendship, but through OM, and understanding how important intentional relationships are, this has become easier.”
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“OM is a life-changing group that helped me to come out of my comfort zone and become real about the man I am with the Lord. OM has helped to show me that the Lord can still use me, even though I am not a perfect man. Through OM I have learned that intimacy with the Lord is of the utmost importance, and I have built relationships with men who have helped my relationship with the Lord grow!”
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“For me, OM has given me a voice where before there was none, and slightly boosted confidence in sharing my faith with other men, not just those in my household. I found that being a part of a group, and being allowed the freedom to open up and be vulnerable, can add fuel to whatever fire is burning.
The bond forged with both groups of men so far has been one that will last a long time. There is even a felt bond with many other men who I know are OM, but weren't in one of my groups- almost a built-in trust."
Leader Testimonies
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“Before stepping up to co-lead my OM group, I recall thinking, and even sharing with other guys, that I didn’t feel qualified to lead a group. Looking back, that was bogus. As it turned out, my group wasn’t looking for me to be a Bible scholar. It mattered a lot more to them that I cared about them enough to challenge them, hold them accountable, grab coffee when life got rocky, etc.
In our last group we had four former and current pastors, a former YoungLife staffer, and several guys that are actively involved in leadership roles within their churches. However, that didn’t impede me or my co-leader from being able to “lead” them. In fact, even though these guys all likely know more of the Bible than I do, they desperately need men around them that they can be real with, and who would challenge them to pursue intimacy with Christ (which can be harder for pastors than we might think).
As a bonus, the OM material really does make it simple. It gives you a script for every session, but as your group gets more comfortable, you’ll find it becomes much more conversational, and the burden of “leading” dissipates as guys share thoughts and explore the topics together.
The truth is, God doesn’t call the qualified, He qualifies the willing. Leading other men in anything can be daunting, but if we are waiting to feel qualified, we’ll never take action. That’s my lesson learned. I hope it encourages you to step up and lead!”
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“At first, I was hesitant to lead an Ordinary Men group. I felt intimidated by the responsibility as well as the time commitment. Yet, I was encouraged by Jeremy to take ownership of my discipleship process, as well as leading others deeper in their walks with Jesus. And, candidly, if it weren’t for Jeremy and a couple of good friends challenging me to do it, I would have likely disqualified myself from leading in the first place, but that didn’t happen (thank goodness for a good mentor and good friends)!
In retrospect, taking responsibility for leading a group put rubber to the road in practicing discipleship. As I began to walk out the process (OM provides the content and guidance for leading), the sacrifice began to pay off because of the feeling of peace that came from knowing I was honoring my heart and intention to walk out the Great Commission.
I connected deeply with the core values of OM: Intimacy, Intentional Relationship, and Multiplication. Once I started “teaching” and “walking” them out in leadership, my own relationship with Jesus deepened, and the fruit of discipleship continued to transform me and my world. I grew as my group members grew… multiplication!
Ultimately, we ought to make time for the things we value, the things that matter. I’m deeply grateful for the opportunity to lead an OM group. I can say without a shadow of a doubt that it’s worth it–to God be the glory!!”
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Leading an OM group provided a great step in strengthening and growing my faith and building lasting intentional relationships with the group. The material and content provided from OM helped to facilitate productive meetings and took away much of the stresses you envision when taking on a leadership role. I would suggest that every participant of OM take advantage of the opportunity to lead, it is a long-term investment in your walk with the Lord.
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“Leading the group was easy because the OM curriculum and framework helped immensely, and the conversations ALWAYS delivered fruit. Great experience that I am far from being done with. I think it gets better every year.”
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“Just the thought of inviting someone into a group where they could see an increase of intimacy with Jesus makes it all worth it. It’s an honor to watch as men, who didn’t previously know what being a Jesus-lover can look like, become aware and alive in an active, contagious faith.
I think a big takeaway for me was the expression of loving Jesus. As a man, I often feel like I need to temper my emotions and not get too excited about certain things. Being around a group of men who have no shame in how they believe was very impactful.”
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“OM allowed me to step up as a leader for Christ and lead other christian men long with myself into a more deeper, meaningful and intimate relationship with Jesus – where so many of us don’t step up at church and lead anything.”
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Yes! You can see 8 of our 27 workbook sessions in the previews below.
Here is a preview of the Men’s Discipleship Workbook:
Men’s Workbook Preview
Two Important Notes:Upon registration in our app, you'll be given access to order your physical workbook.
Seven of our sessions use third-party books, such as: Secrets of the Secret Place by Bob Sorge (1 Chapter), The Normal Christian Life by Watchman Nee (3 Chapters), The Spiritual Man by Watchman Nee (2 Chapters), Forgotten God by Francis Chan (Full Book). We believe these books effectively present essential practices and truths.
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Groups meet weekly (or bi-weekly) for 6-12 months, working through 27 sessions together. You'll have everything you need — a workbook, leader guide, and coaching support. [Watch the process overview →]
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More Details:Groups are designed for a long duration/high commitment environment. This means that for the best outcomes, it is advisable for the group that starts together to remain together until the conclusion. Changes to this design weaken the development of the core values that these groups foster.
Need support? Our team has launched small groups all over the United States, and we have a deep knowledge of the most common small group systems for churches. We offer coaching throughout the entire launch process and assist in integrating OM/OW tracks into your small group ministry.
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No. This was built for ordinary men. The workbook gives you a script for every session. You bring the willingness — we'll give you the tools.
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Ordinary Movement is an interdenominational discipleship movement that supports existing churches with discipleship resources. We welcome and make room for people from all Christian denominations, provided they adhere to the core tenets of historical, biblical Christianity and exhibit the key characteristics of Jesus' followers—humility, curiosity, and a commitment to the truth—without which unity is nearly impossible.
To be very clear, we have worked with groups from the following types of churches: Southern Baptist, Calvary Chapel, Assemblies of God, Non-Denominational, House Church, Catholic, Presbyterian, and many more. We do not endorse any particular association but solely aim to guide our participants toward the core teachings of Jesus, which emphasize being a disciple and making disciples. We’re proud to have pastors from across all denominations recommending our platform, and we strive to major in the majors and minor in the minors.
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Below is our statement of faith:
We believe the Bible to be the inspired, infallible, and authoritative Word of God. The Holy Spirit inspired the writers of the Old and New Testaments pointing to Jesus Christ, the Savior of the world.
We believe that there is one God, eternally existent in three persons: Father, Son and Holy Spirit. These three are coequal and co-eternal.
We believe that God sent His Son, Jesus Christ to redeem all of mankind. Jesus Christ was born of a virgin, lived a sinless life on this earth, performed many undeniable miracles, was crucified for our sins, buried and was raised from the dead for our justification. By the name of Jesus Christ, and His name only, can mankind be saved. Jesus Christ sits at the Right Hand of the Father and will return personally in power and glory to receive His Church unto Himself.
We believe that mankind is sinful by nature and will perish without the saving knowledge of Jesus Christ as revealed in His Gospel. That God wishes that no one should perish, but that all would come to this saving knowledge through the preaching of the Gospel to a lost and hopeless world.
We believe that matrimony is a holy monogamous marriage between one man and one woman. This means that man and woman are two distinct genders willed by God their Creator in their respective beings, which reflect the image and nature of God.
We believe in the multi-faceted work of the Holy Spirit to bring conviction of sin, revelation of the truth of the Gospel of Christ, drawing of the sinner to God, adoption of mankind into the Body of Christ through regeneration, and the distribution and administration of the Gifts and Fruit of the Holy Spirit in the believer’s life. Jesus Christ is the “baptizer with the Holy Spirit” for the empowerment of the Church through the Baptism with the Holy Spirit.
We believe in the local church as a place where believers gather together for edification, teaching from the Word of God, and ministry to and through each other according to their spiritual gift. The local church provides identity to its members as well as encouragement, interdependence, fellowship, correction, and discipline.
We also uphold the Nicene Creed:
This creed dates back to the 4th century A.D. when Christians came together and composed this formative and definitive statement.The Nicene Creed has stood the test of time as a standard of what Christians from every stream of the Body of Christ believe. It is more than an intellectual checklist of doctrine; it is a confession of worship that forms us as the people of God and draws us together into the life of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit.
We believe in one God, the Father, the Almighty maker of heaven and earth, of all that is, seen and unseen. We believe in one Lord, Jesus Christ, the only Son of God, eternally begotten of the Father, God from God, Light from Light, true God from true God, begotten, not made, of one Being with the Father. Through him all things were made. For us and for our salvation he came down from heaven: was incarnate of the Holy Spirit and the Virgin Mary, and became truly human. For our sake he was crucified under Pontius Pilate; he suffered death and was buried. On the third day he rose again in accordance with the Scriptures; he ascended into heaven and is seated at the right hand of the Father. He will come again in glory to judge the living and the dead, and his kingdom will have no end. We believe in the Holy Spirit, the Lord, the giver of Life, who proceeds from the Father and the Son. With the Father and the Son he is worshipped and glorified. Who has spoken through the Prophets. We believe in one holy worldwide and apostolic Church. We acknowledge one baptism for the forgiveness of sins. We look for the resurrection of the dead, and the life of the world to come. Amen.
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Most men’s Bible studies focus primarily on gaining knowledge. Men’s discipleship groups are centered on life change. We follow a clear discipleship pathway that helps men move beyond consuming information into practicing obedience, building real accountability, and growing as spiritual leaders in everyday life.
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Men’s discipleship groups work best with three to six men. This size creates space for honest conversation, meaningful accountability, and strong relationships while keeping participation consistent and focused.
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Groups typically meet weekly or bi-weekly for six to twelve months as they work through all twenty-seven sessions together. This level of commitment allows time for real spiritual growth, depth, and multiplication to take place.
Ready to Lead a Men's Discipleship Group?
You don't need a theology degree. You don't need to be a pastor. You don't need to have it all figured out.
You just need to be willing to step up.
The Great Commission wasn't given to professionals. It was given to ordinary men who had been with Jesus — and were willing to help others do the same.
Firefighters making disciples. Electricians making disciples. Business owners, mechanics, teachers, and retirees — all stepping into the calling Jesus gave to every man.
Will you be one of them?